Love has to be harmonious. Love has to be a matter for my mind. Love has to be pleasure, for desirable lasting. Love is a long-term emotional and intellectual attachment to involve active interest of no aggressive aspect.
We all fight wars--in our work, within our families, and abroad in the wider world, says Mr. Pressfield. Quotient is as much about solving problems as about not having them. A discussion or even dispute is not a war.